The Introverted Girl

Heaven, Hell & The Issues With Religion…

We are born on this earth to experience life. A society has been created with rules to ensure everybody can live together in peace and harmony. For example, you are not supposed to kill anyone unless you are a police officer whose job is to protect the public. You are not supposed to rob anyone…

Diving into the unknown….the magic of recurring numbers

What it means to keep seeing recurring numbers? After my last post, I did come across more synchronizing numbers like 2222, 333, 111, 444, and 4545. Am I seeing these numbers because I am looking forward to see these numbers? Because I am expecting to see them. Every time I see these numbers, I can’t…

Positive Affirmations Practice

I am free from debt. I am financially independent. I always attract abundance to my life. I am happy with what I have in my life. I am content and satisfied. I am full of happiness. I am close to nature. I get help at the right time always. The Universe always have my back….

Is the universe really speaking to you? The magic of repeated numbers…

Recently I found an influencer in Instagram that I have been following for quite some time posting about seeing recurring numbers repeatedly. The numbers that she always seem to see are 111, 444. I have come across other people talking about these numbers but I never really paid any attention because I thought it is…

What are the 10 most important things in a relationship?

In the initial stage of a relationship, no doubt physical attraction do play some special role. Having a healthy hair, flawless skin, perfect body shape, etc. But all these will fade in time.

Grab free online courses available now during lockdown

There is a timeline to finish this course with due date for assignments or quiz. I learn by watching videos and interviews…

Detachment is key to happiness

The process of attaining something doesn’t make me happy nor does achievement makes happiness long lasting…..Life will be predictable and will not be exciting if we know what is going to happen.

Maintaining sanity during Covid 19

There are many who are now showcasing their skills by cooking. Dalgona coffee has gone viral.

Hiking @ Broga

Since climbing up the rock was a nightmare, we decided to take another route to go down. This route was tough as well as it was dry and slippery.

Ugly ones are lucky

This is a reality in this world. If you are pretty, you will be noticed easily. If you are not, then you need something in order for people to notice you.

The number one EXCUSE we ever give to ourselves which is causing us a good fortune

We have always given all sort of excuses as to why we can’t or unable to do certain things. Clean that cupboard – I am busy. Do some exercise – I am busy. Read that book – I am busy. Work on your side business – I am busy. We have been so busy doing…

Time to slow down for self reflection

I think at the moment, most of the countries around the world have gone into lockdown or practice movement control among the citizens. We are all trying to save ourselves from the deadly virus. Here, in Malaysia, the government has started movement control order for the citizens in order to protect us. Now already one…

Gratitude Chain / Week 2

Everything that is happening around me preparing me for something greater. I am ready to face any challenges that comes. I solve problems easily. Things become better. I surround myself with people who brings out my best. Life is great. Thank you. I’m grateful for this amazing life. I attract great things to my life….

Gratitude Chain / Week 1

I am grateful for this amazing life. I am breathing. I have a place to stay and meals to eat. I am blessed to do a job that I love the most. Everything comes easy to me. Thank you Universe! I am grateful for this peaceful life. Life is amazing. With caring family and amazing…

The Power of First Impression

“Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder”! How do we define beauty? By seeing their color, height, shape, etc right? Some will see beauty based on their character. Most people will definitely vote based on appearance first, then only character. Do you agree with me? I realized something today. As I was waiting for…

Daily List To Do – Free Template

Do you find yourself unable to focus at job? You have so many things to do but not sure where to start and how to start? You waste time just thinking but not doing anything productive? I have a solution for you. The trick is writing down your task and monitor the progress. I have…

5 Things That Your Girlfriend Wants From You

Women can be a confusing creature. One time they want one thing and another time, they want something else. But after reading this, you will know for sure that this is not going wrong again. Are you ready to find out the truth? Quickly read this. 1.Attention Number one thing a woman craves from you…

Time…

Another day passed Another month passed Another year will pass How far have I come? It is the time to stop and ponder I must focus on my own path My path is different than others Written by : Puspha Jeyapergasam 06.12.2019

Hold It

Hold it!

When people tell me I should be positive…

A fruit a day for 20 days

This is a continuous post from A fruit a day for 10 days. I decided to break the post into three different post so that it is not too long and also to give myself some time for writing. I will write only 10 fruits that you can include in your daily meals in this…

A fruit a day for 10 days

Do you know that we have so many different fruits that exist in the market that we can eat and never get bored eating them? If you are vegetarian like me, you will know how frustrated it is to get proper meal and how it feels like having incomplete meals. So I decided to list…

Signs Of Interest

Sometimes we keep searching For some clue Whether or not Someone likes us Google becomes our best friend Trying to understand human behaviour Does he like me? Why did he do that? We get excited When most of it shows That our crush likes us Otherwise our glance wouldn’t meet? A man…

Better Me

Pain is definite No one can escape If today I’m happy Tomorrow I might not Different people come Give different experience Some make me happy Others make me suffer Sometimes innocence Becomes my greatest Reason for downfall But is it really downfall? Selfishness everywhere Some don’t care How their action Affects other people Some look…

Independent

You cannot live alone You must stay with a man The society will look badly at you If you don’t have a man You need a companion To help you during bad times To avoid being lonely You must find a man Quarrelling and fighting Is part and parcel of life Today you fight Tomorrow…

Blame

It is easy to blame Everyone and everything Sometimes even God For things we couldn’t get We couldn’t get that ice cream We blamed our parents We couldn’t achieve good marks We blamed our teachers We couldn’t get that promotion We blamed our boss Our friend get promoted first We talked bad behind…

Day 42 – The Process of Healing

I couldn’t write everyday due to work commitment and other things which needed my immediate attention. Therefore I have to take a long jump from Day 2 to Day 42. I definitely feel better now. I have taken few steps to make myself feel better. So I’m going to share with you what I did…

Self respect

If there is any one person In this world Who should give me respect It is none other than myself When I give myself the respect I will think twice to do anything That will put me down That will embarrass me When I give myself the respect I will look high on me I…

Why can’t vegetarian eat egg?

I am a vegetarian. I decided to go for vegetarian diet in July 2009 just before I joined University to continue my studies. Why I became vegetarian? You will find the answer here (Being vegetarian) I knew I didn’t want to eat meat. I didn’t like eating onion or garlic, I stopped eating onion and…

He is not the one

You keep asking questions You are not sure You feel doubts He is not the one He plays hide and seek You keep wondering What are his intentions He is not the one You feel not safe You feel not loved You feel abandoned He is not the one You keep waiting You want him…

Prayers

If there is one thing in the world That works like magic That will be prayers A prayer that is sincere and selfless We can change our circumstances We get protection from the divine Like a ray of light above our head Encloses us from anything evil Prayers make us feel better We…

Genius

There is a genius in us Sometimes we are not aware We never try to bring it out Because we keep comparing with others Some can sing very well Some can dance very well Some can act very well Some can speak very well Just because one is weak in studies Doesn’t mean they are…

Memories

I can’t help but revisit I can’t stop but remember I can’t sleep but rewind All the memories in my mind It was a sweet memory It was a bitter moment It was terrifying It was like a dream The mind loves memory Aching to go back How I wish I can go back to…

Jealousy

There is a feeling of lacking Somewhere deep in my heart Something that another has Why I don’t have it? My heart beating fast Silently hurting and worrying As if a beast is hidden Wanting that thing so badly Secretly wishing bad to happen Hoping they will fail and fall Thinking I will…

Lost

Sometimes you don’t know where you are going It feels like time is moving slowly Second by second, beat by beat Mind seems to be lost in the puddle You close your eyes to relax Uneasy feeling in your chest Scary to go down on the road Not knowing what might appear You…

Not meant to be

Certain things in life Do not happen the way we want We can only plan As much as we want But the outcome is never ours We can dream so much Sometimes it feels so real We can believe it is ours But before we realize It is long gone dissappeared Destiny can…

The Door

Knock, knock, knock You pull, you push You turn the knob Left and right It is not your door You found a key Along the journey You insert the key You try and try It is not your door You found more doors You get excited Maybe this one Maybe that one It…

Day 2 – The Process of Healing

Today I definitely felt better than yesterday. Maybe it is because I slept with a hope that today will be a good day. It was a relaxing day at work. Everybody seems to be happily working. I gave full attention to my work and went out for an appointment. The dreaded part of the day…

The mind

Our mind is like a little kid Wanting to explore Curious to know Tempted to try Stubborn when refused In order to control our little kid We must give toy to play We must give the attention it seeks We must give some task to do Otherwise it starts to scream Take care…

A little kindness returned unexpectedly

I was preparing to leave office for an appointment. Knowing that I might not return to the office on that day and since I was going on leave for the next few days, my colleague approached me with a little box in her hand. “Puspha, since I might won’t be seeing you the next few…

Tomorrow is a new day

I hope to wake up with a new hope. I hope to start a new life. I want to leave all the negative things and bury it deeply. I want to bring only good memories tomorrow. I still want to believe there are good things around. Let me be the first to be that good…

Hatred

You feel like you are seeking justice You look for opportunity to seek revenge You want to see the other person to suffer You want to throw the fire to burn Not realizing it is your hand get burnt first Your health gets affected Your mind gets affected Your relationship gets affected Your future…

Self Control

Fight the urge to text him Fight the pain you feel in your heart Fight the thoughts about the past Fight the feelings you are feeling You can control it, My Love Your fingers will stop typing Your eyes will stop looking Your legs will stop going Your heart will stop aching Because he…

Day 1 – The Process of Healing

I woke up this morning. Eyes still closed. My mind was browsing past memories. How did all these happened? I felt pain in my heart. Time is ticking. I couldn’t wake up. Felt like no energy to go to work. My second alarm goes off. I forced myself to get up and bathed. Got ready…

The Pantry

This is a short story. I wrote this long time ago but never posted. I wanted to write chapter by chapter. I have never written a story. Do read and let me know your thoughts. I will continue to write this story from time to time. 🙂 Day One Sharp at 9am, Ivanka already being…

Does Soulmate Really Exists?

Yes. I believe soulmate really exists. I have seen couples who are so much in love and their face actually look alike. They respect and understand each other. They are able to tolerate and fix any problems that comes in their relationship. They are able to live together until the end. However, there are not…

Letting go

When you love something, you would want it to be with you. It can be things, people, position, pet, power, etc. As much it feels good to have something we love, that much it hurts when we no longer have it. It hurts when we lose it. Sometimes we can do something to keep it….

Ignored

I think of you all the time Wondering what you are doing In the name of care I send text messages Only to be ignored I look at the time Thinking you might be busy Maybe driving, maybe working Maybe out with friends Time passes with blue tick Every hour I look at…

Dream Big

I am a dreamer I dream for good life I dream for good food I dream for good family I dream for good health I am a dreamer I dream to live rich I dream to travel the world I dream to live in mansion I dream to drive Benz I am a…