It’s been awhile since I last wrote in my blog. My friend recently asked me on my next blog post. Well, there is a lot of things going on in my mind. But I haven’t really thought of putting it into words. So right now I’m thinking to write about friendship. Why friendship? Because friendship is very important to me. Being an introvert, my circle of friends are very small. I simply don’t allow everyone into this small circle, so if you are in, then you are special to me.
Friendship is about sharing the good and bad times together. Friendship is about trust. I trust you that you will never betray me and back me up in any situation. Friendship is about being there physically and emotionally to support each other. Friendship is about irritating each other to the max and still stick to each other. No matter how far you have gone, no matter which you country you have shifted to, friendship is about still keeping in touch and talking grandma stories. Do you agree with me? No? Ok, fine..
I feel as we grow, we evolve and become a different person. We might not be the same person anymore. We don’t talk the same language anymore. We don’t spend that much time together anymore. Friendship fades in the fast moving world. We are so busy working day and night that we forget to say a simple hello to each other. Or maybe we simply have new buddies to keep us occupied. Perhaps we are so busy with our special one, boyfriends and girlfriends!
When I reflect back, sometimes I wonder, will friendship stand the test of time and distance. The technology has improved greatly, all of us have a mobile phone 24/7 with us but still we don’t keep in touch with each other. Maybe we will only start contacting our friends when we need them. Some people say that if our old friends start contacting us back, it might be because they want to sell something to us…Hahaha… Why don’t we keep close contacts with our friends rather than only look for them when we need them? This is a reminder for myself too! I have to re-evaluate where my current friendship stands. Thank you to all my friends who have been keeping in touch with me during my up and low time. Thank you so much and love you all!! ❤ ❤ ❤
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